Don't read if you have low qualifications and can't accept the truth.
So young, so carefree, so happy. 
Seems like we've reached a point where my future lies in the decisions that I make. To think many of those in my age group haven't even grown up. Partying, planning oh-so-cool activities weekly or daily, not taking their studies seriously or even giving up their studies, not being able to sustain having a full time job for a month yet spending money like nobody's business, buying things that they can't afford, pestering parents to get this cool gadget and that branded bag for them.
I'm sorry if this offends anyone, just my 2 cents worth, but who the hell survives with just an 'O' level cert?! Even I think a diploma sucks big time, much less an 'O' level cert (96% of those who don't have a higher qualification is probably because their 'O' level results sucks. Which makes the whole situation worse!)
If you're girl, it's not totally fatal but make sure your husband earns enough and won't look down on you. Hard to say for guys these days or the stability of a marriage these days. He knows you can't survive without him, so he dares to do anything, including sleeping around. Let's say you get dumped, how are you gonna survive? Just on the maintenance alone? If both of you are young and divorced with no kids, how much maintenance do you think you can get? Dreaming big doesn't help now. Then you'll think about why he doesn't want you. (Let's put LOVE aside for now) Because he thinks you're a liability, he found someone more capable and able to contribute financially to the household. He finds capable women more appealing instead of someone who slacks around all day and wait for his return. Given the society we live in now, both scenarios, highly possible.
If you're a guy, -let's just keep it short- whoa, good luck to you surviving man.
Anyway, back to the topic. Maybe, these other people I'm talking about are just luckier. They may not be more well-to-do but maybe, their parents just don't push.
But at least, I learn how to be independent. So maybe, I'm luckier in a sense. Or maybe, it's just sour grapes (HAHAHAHAHA!) Who knows? Anyway, the above is just targeted at those with no drive to improve themselves, you do not need to be highly educated but at least, AT LEAST, have a decent job!
So now, Dad's been pestering me about my studies. Whether I want to go to UK or not. The more he says that it's no problem sending me there, it's no problem that I leave Singapore, it's no problem that I'll be away from home for a long time; the more stressed up I am. Problem. Problem. Problem. Dilemma. Dilemma. DILEMMA.
Anyway, I seriously miss Nicky boy. ): It's been 3 years since you've gone. I grew up with you, I played with you, you were my friend. You lick my tears whenever I hug you and cry over a tiff I had with Mom, over a fucked up relationship, over anything under the sun. I wish you were around.
Loves and misses loads. ): So sad now.
xoxo
Seems like we've reached a point where my future lies in the decisions that I make. To think many of those in my age group haven't even grown up. Partying, planning oh-so-cool activities weekly or daily, not taking their studies seriously or even giving up their studies, not being able to sustain having a full time job for a month yet spending money like nobody's business, buying things that they can't afford, pestering parents to get this cool gadget and that branded bag for them.I'm sorry if this offends anyone, just my 2 cents worth, but who the hell survives with just an 'O' level cert?! Even I think a diploma sucks big time, much less an 'O' level cert (96% of those who don't have a higher qualification is probably because their 'O' level results sucks. Which makes the whole situation worse!)
If you're girl, it's not totally fatal but make sure your husband earns enough and won't look down on you. Hard to say for guys these days or the stability of a marriage these days. He knows you can't survive without him, so he dares to do anything, including sleeping around. Let's say you get dumped, how are you gonna survive? Just on the maintenance alone? If both of you are young and divorced with no kids, how much maintenance do you think you can get? Dreaming big doesn't help now. Then you'll think about why he doesn't want you. (Let's put LOVE aside for now) Because he thinks you're a liability, he found someone more capable and able to contribute financially to the household. He finds capable women more appealing instead of someone who slacks around all day and wait for his return. Given the society we live in now, both scenarios, highly possible.
If you're a guy, -let's just keep it short- whoa, good luck to you surviving man.
Anyway, back to the topic. Maybe, these other people I'm talking about are just luckier. They may not be more well-to-do but maybe, their parents just don't push.
But at least, I learn how to be independent. So maybe, I'm luckier in a sense. Or maybe, it's just sour grapes (HAHAHAHAHA!) Who knows? Anyway, the above is just targeted at those with no drive to improve themselves, you do not need to be highly educated but at least, AT LEAST, have a decent job!
So now, Dad's been pestering me about my studies. Whether I want to go to UK or not. The more he says that it's no problem sending me there, it's no problem that I leave Singapore, it's no problem that I'll be away from home for a long time; the more stressed up I am. Problem. Problem. Problem. Dilemma. Dilemma. DILEMMA.
Anyway, I seriously miss Nicky boy. ): It's been 3 years since you've gone. I grew up with you, I played with you, you were my friend. You lick my tears whenever I hug you and cry over a tiff I had with Mom, over a fucked up relationship, over anything under the sun. I wish you were around.
Loves and misses loads. ): So sad now.
xoxo
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